Any event can fall into one of three categories:
Take, for example, a cat eating a mouse. For the mouse it is sad. For the cat it is very happy. For an observer, who cares neither about the mouse nor the cat, it is neutral. So, everything is a matter of perception, a point, or reference. Change your point of reference, and you see a totally different picture. Mantras help you change your point of reference.
Mantra for the day: औं सत्यं शिवं सुंदरम
Truly count your blessings and see the beauty of the world around you!